BiteKitty's

Bits and pieces of an everyday life!

Saturday, May 26, 2007

Just Take Care of My Eyes!

Sometimes you read something and it makes you stop and think....



There was blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, "now that you can see the world, will you marry me?." The girl was shocked when she saw her boyfriend was blind too, and refused to marry him.

Her boyfriend walked away with tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying.
"JUST TAKE CARE OF MY EYES PLEASE".

this is how humans change when their status changes. Only a few remember what life was before, and who has always been there in the most painful situations.

Monday, May 07, 2007

When is separation/break-up the hardest?

Is separation/break-up the hardest at the beginning, or at the end?

Separation or breaking up is “known” to be the hardest the first few weeks/months or even the first year--depending on how deep the relationship was-- we feel disoriented and at "loose ends" in our lives because everything has just been turned upside down. And after the mourning and sadness, we tend to adjust and move on with our lives.

But isn't separation really the hardest when memories get into the picture? when certain situations, activities, or certain places remind us of things that we used to have/do together?