As I was reading a friend's blog I realized I haven't blogged for over 2 months ! Dang! lol anyways
so I was tossing and turning trying to sleep(as usual),when I started reflecting on what happened through the day,and was thinking:
Why do we set high expectations for people without getting to know them well enough, then simply blame them for not falling within the expected level?
shouldn't we start low? And build up our set of expectations as we get to know the person?
we usually end up getting disappointed and start blabbing and accusing them for not acting like we wanted them to but we never blame ourselves....Couldn't it just be our fault! And it most probably is ..
Or... Why do some people think others can read their minds? And say "well, u should've known so!" what in the world is "You should've known so" ? I know im not a mind reader, and I'd like for the person to be straight forward and just say what they expect ! Don't you?
What's this, like a mind game or something !
I bet men can relate to this more than women :)
bonne nuit.
